Anonymous asked: I've fallen hard for someone and when I'm with them, all the insecurities that have plagued me all my life just fall away. But I'm afraid sometimes they'll all come rushing back. I won't know what to do if they do.
This is going to sound very stupid and cliche, but I think one thing that will help everyone in the long run is not to worry about things we cannot change. It’s wonderful that your fears and insecurities go away when you’re with this person, and there’s a reason for that - it means you have a strong connection with them. I think dwelling on the topic too much might provoke the insecurities that might otherwise stay away, so the best thing to do is probably to enjoy that without wondering how it will change, because those types of connections can be hard to find!
But if the insecurities come back, it’s nothing you can’t handle. After all, you’ve lived with them your entire life and they’ve never beaten you. Even if they do resurface, having someone you love so much in your life is a very good thing, and they’re someone you can lean on, which is something you might not have had before.
So, basically, this is not as easy as it sounds and it’s hypocritical to ask, but trying to relax is, I think, the best thing. Life was meant for living, after all. :)
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